Showing posts with label Balance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Balance. Show all posts

08 March, 2012

Play with Crayons

Creativity comes from looking for the unexpected and stepping outside your own experience.
~ Masaru Ibuka



Recently, Owen has become fascinated with Crayons.  He enjoys trying to hold as many crayons in one hand as possible.  




He enjoys taking them out of the basket and throwing them on the ground.  He loves the sound they make as they hit the ground.  And he watches with intent how they move across the floor.  He giggles in delight at the different patterns they make each and every time.




And he enjoys putting them back into the basket.






I love watching Owen play in "unexpected ways."  As an adult, I am used to using crayons for coloring; not watching them roll, or bounce, or make noises.  I am also not used to looking for the "unexpected" way in which a crayon can be used, like my children do.


So, as a parent, I make every effort to let my children take the lead, play in a way that is of interest to them.  The result: I receive an amazing blessing.  I learn that a  crayon is not just an item to color with; rather crayons have texture, movement, and colors that bring delight in many more ways than expected.  


In these moments, I learn to think "unexpectedly" and move forward with greater clarity and perspective.  I learn, as an adult, that the simple things in life are truly amazing, and often times, overlooked.  It is through the eyes of a child that I am able to remember to enjoy the simplicity in life.  


Claire




PS - Every time my children play with crayons, I think of Ania's post  Lessons from the box of crayons.  For this post taught me how to be more conscious about how my children play.

05 January, 2012

Moments to Remember





Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but
by the moments that take our breath away.         
Hilary Cooper



For the past few months or so, I have not been on the computer writing a post to the blog.  I have been spending my time with my children, family and friends. 

During this time, I have found myself treasuring moments, filing them away in my heart and mind, knowing that when I am older, I will look back and be so grateful I experienced them.  And today, I experienced one of those moments that I would like to share.

My youngest son Owen is 10 months old.  He is my active little guy.  He loves to crawl around, follow his brother and sister, throw little balls and chase them, and generally, investigate how everything moves and works.  Yesterday he came down with a stomach bug and has not been feeling well since.  

Last night, he slept 13 hours, he awoke to have a drink of milk, and then went back to sleep for another few hours.  When he woke again, he ate a little applesauce, and then wanted to be held.  

My older two were in bed, so it was just Owen and me.  Owen did not want to crawl around, he did not want to look at a book, he did not want me to walk him around.  Owen simply wanted to sit in my lap, in the rocking chair, with no music, no talking, and no movement.  

As I sat there, I slowly merged into the moment, observing his sweet little hands resting upon my arms (which were snuggling him closely.)  I saw his ankles crossed and his adorable little feet resting in my lap without socks.  I saw his chest gently rise and fall with each breath, I saw his eye lashes flutter, and....I saw (and felt) him calm down into the moment with me.

And then I closed my eyes to allow myself to sense the moment.  I felt the weight of him gently blend into my lap, I felt his soft hair on his head against my cheek, and then I felt the calmness.  We started to gently merge into a feeling of....love.  The love I felt was overpowering.  I sat there with him in my lap, in awe of his presence, and felt immensely blessed that he came into my life.  And in that moment, a tear flowed down my cheek.  I did not move to wipe it as I normally do, rather I let it fall and just held space for the moment.

We sat there for what seemed like a long time, yet, I do not think it was too long.  When Owen moved to rub his eyes, indicating he was tired, we both took a stretch, had another snuggle, and I took him to bed.  As I said "sleep well little baby" and walked out of the room, my heart smiled with love and blessings.

08 August, 2011

Complimentary Healing Modalities Part 2 - The Anat Baniel Method




"To keep the body in good health is a duty, otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear." ~Buddha

"There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophies." ~Friedrich Nietzche

"Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live." ~Jim Rohn



Feldenkrais - the Anat Baniel Method.  
"Access your brain to transform your life."  


The Anat Baniel Method is a new complimentary healing modality we are using with my 5-month-old son Owen.  I can also say this is Owen's gift to me, to experience how the Anat Baniel Method directly affects and changes the brain processes to assist in overall physical health.  

Owen has had some eating and mobility challenges since birth.  Nothing severe, but nonetheless, present.  We have related some of the challenges to his torticollis.  Since birth, Owen has been treated with Esoteric Healing, Cranial Sacral Therapy, Visceral Therapy, Chinese massage, Massage, etc.  All have assisted greatly, no question.  However, eating and mobility challenges remain.  

While at an appointment with our D.O. to review his overall wellbeing, we were talking about how I knew that he was healthy, and "perfectly" fine:  However, I also knew intuitively that Owen was struggling to "fully integrate" his physical form based on subtle clues such as the beginning movement of his left arm always originating from a downward position, never from the side.  She assessed Owen and noted she felt Owen simply needed help with his neurological programming, possibly utilizing a different complimentary healing modality.  That is, he needed some help to recognize he could perform certain movements.  She suggested seeing a Feldenkrais practitioner specializing in the Anat Baniel Method (ABM.)  

The Anat Baniel method "accesses the remarkable capacity of the human brain to form new connections and new patterns and reach levels of performance never achieved before.  Derived from the groundbreaking method developed by Dr. Feldenkrais, the ABM is based on cutting edge scientific theory and on the understanding of how our brain learns and transforms our body, our mind and our spirit.  Tens of thousands of people seeking an alternative and complementary approach to medicine, fitness training, physical therapy programs and ways to help children with special needs have used the ABM with great success."


Often, when a body isn't functioning at the highest rate, the problem is caused by a lack of communication between the brain's nervous system which governs the body's movements and the muscles that actually move the body's limbs. In other words, the brain might not know how to make proper use of those muscles. The connection just isn't there.

The aim of the Anat Baniel Method is to make the connection between the brain and the muscles, helping the body get to know itself, thereby enabling it to take proper advantage of all of its muscles.

Unlike most therapies, ABM is not a goal based system. These therapists will not allow a child to learn to stand before they can crawl, for example. The only goal is to get the body to figure itself out, step by step without skipping, always at its own pace. Just like a newborn would do.

Needless to say, I am in love with this complimentary healing modality!  It is very similar to the others we use; however, its application is slightly different.  Owen loved his session of learning.  And during the session, I immediately noticed him using his arm more fully.  By the end of the session, he was moving and integrating correct movements.  I am continuing to see daily improvements 1 week following the session.

Owen still participates in all of his other complimentary healing modalities; we just have one more to assist him with integrating more effectively.  I believe each complimentary healing modality functions in a similar fashion, it is more of a matter of what combination of modalities works best for the individual.  I am so glad to be learning about another method to assist with healing.  And, I am so excited we have found something Owen responds to in such a positive manner.

If you or anyone you know if interested in learning more about Feldenkrais, please visit the Anat Baniel website.  If you have had an experience with the Anat Baniel Method, I would love to hear about it!

~Claire


http://www.anatbanielmethod.com/

21 June, 2011

Complimentary Healing Modalities – Part 1


"A wise man ought to realize that health is his most valuable possession."


Hippocrates


This reminds me that my most valuable possession is my health, my well-being, and my physical, emotional, mental and spiritual balance.  For with these aspects in balance, I am able to be the best person possible, and I am able to give my all to my family and friends and humanity.



When it comes to the health and wellbeing of my family and myself, I am one to search for balance in all aspects.  One of the ways that I help us all maintain balance is to utilize Complimentary Healing Modalities.  Many of these Complimentary Healing Modalities have become a part of our everyday life.  They help all of us in maintaining physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being and balance.  So many times I will come out of a session for myself, or one of my children, and think how grateful I am to have this resource in my life! 

For me, personally, I began utilizing the Complementary Healing Modalities when I had an environmental reaction.  I began losing balance, feeling extremely sick to my stomach, and losing regular daily functions.  Doctors could not determine what was wrong with me.  So, I began working with a D.O. for Cranial Sacral Adjustments, a Functional Medicine Specialist, and an Esoteric Healer, in addition my regular medical doctors.  Eventually, it was determined my issues were environmentally induced and my central nervous system was shutting down the function of my organs and my muscles were tightening and compressing me into a fetal position.

Once this was determined, I began intensive Esoteric Healing sessions, along with acupuncture, massage and cranial sacral work.  It took about a 3 months to get back on my feet with the help of the complimentary healing modalities.  I know that I would not have recovered that quickly or invasively without their help.

Following this, I began using acupuncture for detoxification and fertility issues.  I used Esoteric Healing on a monthly basis for support and overall balance.  I used cranial sacral treatments to help maintain proper body structure.  And I used massage to help decrease stress build up in the musculature system and to help maintain proper function.  Upon the birth of my children, my children have participated in cranial sacral, visceral manipulation and esoteric healing on a regular basis.  This has helped them adjust more easily to life outside of the womb, and has helped with torticollis and an imbalance in muscle development.  While they may not have needed these all of these services according to the medical community, I believe that they have assist my children in growing and developing with more ease, and less restriction, which I am so grateful for!

The other night, my children asked for additional esoteric healing and cranial sacral treatments.  While I was treating them, I realized I wanted to share some of my thoughts on a few of the Complimentary Healing Modalities that we use regularly, what they are, and how we use them because they are such a huge part of maintaining balance in our life.

To begin, I thought I would outline the different modalities we use and find helpful and if they are useful for fertility, conception, pregnancy, birth, infants, toddlers, children and adults parenting.   My upcoming posts will outline more specific examples of how we have used the modalities and some of the results. 


Treatment:    Cranial Sacral Adjustments
When to use: For tune-ups, pregnancy, birth, infants upon birth, as your child is growing,    if you have an accident, strained muscles, pinched nerves, etc.
Definition:      Just as the heart beats and the lungs breathe with a rhythm, so does the central nervous system. This rhythm is present in all tissues of the body, every cell of the body, and bones of the cranium.  The motion influences the body function. Osteopathic physicians use their hands to connect and assess motions of the body and structural dynamics. This technique is a subtly powerful way to address restrictions, initiate therapeutic responses and find health.

Treatment:    Visceral Manipulation
When to use: For tune-ups, emotional issues, digestive disorders, pediatric issues, such as colic, reflux, constipation, musculoskeletal disorders, sports injuries, etc.
Definition:      VM assists functional and structural imbalances throughout the body including musculoskeletal, vascular, nervous, urogenital, respiratory, digestive and lymphatic dysfunction. It evaluates and treats the dynamics of motion and suspension in relation to organs, membranes, fascia and ligaments. VM increases proprioceptive communication within the body, thereby revitalizing a person and relieving symptoms of pain, dysfunction, and poor posture.
                        Definition is provided by the Barral Institute

Treatment:    Esoteric Healing
When to use: For physical, emotional, mental and spiritual balance.  For pregnancy, infertility, birth and growth of children.  For adults wishing to approach any personal or physical life situations from all levels. 
Definition:      This technique is applied to effect deep inner healing on all levels and is also used for release of trauma from past or present events. The sessions can be done with individuals, relationships, couples, and family. They are given energetically and intuitively in a safe and gentle way.
Esoteric Healing means deep inner healing. It is a "hands-off" system of treating the energy flow of the human body in order to promote health and balance. It is a way to access energies, emotions, and thoughts that may be hidden or unconscious, such as trauma and painful memories from life challenges, major life changes or even childhood. With Energy Healing, the release of these stored energies can be gentle and effective.
Balancing and integrating the flow of the physical, emotional, and mental energies are other key aspects of Energy Healing. When the energy flow is blocked or restricted, an imbalance occurs which may result in illness or disease. Stress and inner restrictions can be neutralized to support vitality and healing.
Definition is provided by Deborah Graham from “The International Network of Esoteric Healing”.

Treatment:    Massage
When to use: For tune-ups, pregnancy, birth, infants, as your child is growing, if you have unbalance in your body, etc.
Definition:      The purpose of massage is to restore your body back into its natural balance no matter what your reason is for seeking massage;
For someone who is always on the go massage will increase stamina, relieve stress and tension, alleviate headaches and increases productivity.
Or you may be an athlete looking to increase circulation, flexibility & mobility. Massage will also relieve muscle soreness and reduce recovery time.
Perhaps you are a mother-to-be; Massage will reduce anxiety, edema, muscle tension and stiffness all while increasing circulation.
Finally, do you just need to take time for yourself? Massage will improve your posture, enhance your self-image, and strengthen your immune system.

Treatment:    Meditation
When to use: To find a time to be quiet each day, for all of life, for specific life situations, infertility, pregnancy, birth, to teach your children, shifts in the function of the brain, etc.
Definition:      Meditation is generally an internal, personal practice and done without any external involvement, except perhaps prayer beads to count prayers, though many practitioners of meditation may rely on external objects such as candle flames as points on which to focus their attention as an aid to the process. Meditation often involves invoking or cultivating a feeling or internal state, such as compassion, or attending to a specific focal point. The term can refer to the state itself, as well as to practices or techniques employed to cultivate the state.  There are dozens or more specific styles of meditation practice; the word meditation may mean different things in different contexts.
                        Definition provided by Wikipedia.
                        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meditation

Treatment:    Energy Medicine
When to use: For tune-ups, pregnancy, birth, infants upon birth, as your child is growing, if you have an accident, etc.
Definition:      Energy Medicine awakens energies that bring vitality, joy, and enthusiasm to your life -- and greater health to your body, mind, and spirit! Balancing your energies balances your chemistry and hormones, helps you feel better, and helps you think well. And it empowers you to adapt and even flourish in the 21st century.  Energy Medicine heals the body by activating its natural healing energies; you also heal the body by restoring energies that have become weak, disturbed, or out of balance.  To accomplish this goal, energy medicine utilizes techniques from healing traditions such as acupuncture, yoga, kinesiology, and qi gong.
                        Definition is provided by Donna Eden at “Energy Medicine”.
                        http://www.innersource.net/em/

Treatment:    Acupuncture
When to use: For tune-ups, pregnancy, birth, infants upon birth, as your child is growing, if you have an accident, etc.
Definition:      A method of encouraging the body to promote natural healing and improve function based on the belief that good health depends on the entire body being in balance.  This treatment is to assist with correction of the body’s imbalances (i.e.: disease, symptoms, etc.) by restoring the body’s natural ability to heal itself.  Acupuncture can improve circulation, reduce muscle tension, relieve pain, and facilitate the release of endorphins, to name a few.

Treatment:    Reiki
When to use: For tune-ups, pregnancy, birth, infants upon birth, as your child is growing, if you have an accident, etc.
Definition:      A relaxation therapy for stress reduction and healing. Energy is channeled through and around the body, creating a feeling of peace and well-being. A practitioner’s hands move gently on or above the client in a series of placements from the head to the feet. No massaging takes place and the client is fully clothed.
                        http://www.reikiacademy.org/id12.html

Treatment:    Functional Medicine
When to use: When you need diet and supplement support.  Prior to conception, pregnancy, post birth, every day, for children when they begin to eat food.
Definition:      Functional medicine is personalized medicine that deals with primary prevention and underlying causes instead of symptoms for mild to serious chronic disease.   Functional medicine reviews core clinical imbalances that underlie various disease conditions. Those imbalances arise as environmental inputs such as diet, nutrients (including air and water), exercise, and trauma are processed by one’s body, mind, and spirit through a unique set of genetic predispositions, attitudes, and beliefs.  The goal is to work with the patient and their doctors to adjust the lifestyle and way of living so they can be as balanced and natural as possible.  Consultations can be simply for supplements, or handling more serious issues such as cardiovascular disease.
                        Definition provided by the Functional Medicine Institute.
                        http://www.functionalmedicine.org/


What do you think about using Complimentary Healing Modalities?  Have you used any of them?  If so, have you had good experiences?  If you have not used any of these, do you think they sound like they might be helpful in the future for you?  If you have experience with any of these healing modalities, I would love to hear about it!


~Claire